GUIDANCE

A must-read Before we get started, there are some very important things I want you to pay attention to. White Horse is about protecting everybody here, and the best way we can do that is to make you aware of some behaviors that could impact your experience here and elsewhere. Your snuggly little avatar The [...]

This is a brief(-ish) post to give you a clear overview of the key components of divorce. Divorce is complicated. From a legal perspective, however, the terrain has two pieces, neither of which are fairly described as "fun." Money, and children. MONEY = INCOME + ASSETS + DEBTS Obviously, if you have no children, the [...]

Are women "too emotional" in divorce? A lot has been said about the emotionality of women in divorce. Is it true that every woman proceeds in divorce through a cloud of emotion? Of course not. But many do, and this has both positive and negative consequences. Remember, there is nothing wrong with “emotional.” There is [...]

Whether you know you are heading for divorce, or you suspect it's a real possibility, here are the things you need to do now. (No pictures today, folks. Scary topics call for serious formatting.) Often, we fail to protect ourselves. We don't have a crystal ball, so after events have unfolded we regret that we [...]

You are about to meet your new best friend. "Dear Annie ~ I have a question. Who's Cindy?"Confused "Dear Confused ~ I'm Cindy."Annie When I realized I was getting a divorce, I was keenly aware of a few things. One, I was married to a very private man. Two, we had children. Three, we lived [...]